Your Path to Effortless Sex Ed Talks
Making It Easy to Start the Sex Talks with Your Kids
No more awkward moments! No more uncertainty!
Dina Alexander, MS
Rio Rancho, New Mexico
Dear Fellow Parent,
I know that talking to your kids about sex can be seriously scary.
If that’s how you feel, you’re not alone. And, I understand. I really do.
Talking about sex isn’t exactly a walk in the park for most of us!
If you’re unsure about how to even start these conversations…
If you’re not sure what to talk about next…
If you’re seeing some strange behavior or conversations from your kids…
Then you’re in the right place.
For the past 10 years, I’ve been helping parents just like you get comfortable and prepared with the right words for these discussions.
And on this page, I’m going to show you exactly how you can gain the confidence and know-how to have these crucial discussions with your kids.
What Your Kids Are Really Being Exposed To
Right now, our kids are being told what sex is by some of the most unreliable and unhealthy voices out there. Whether they are on the school bus or accidentally stumbling upon p*rn online, they are seeing creepy and damaging messages.
I’m not just saying that our kids are being exposed to some silly nude photos or videos of unusual sex. The messages they are getting from hyper-sexualized media and online p*rn are vile and destructive! With deviancy like rape and incest being celebrated on 99% of porn sites and readily available to kids of all ages online.
And what does this exposure to violent sexual imagery that is totally devoid of intimacy or meaning do to our kids?
Our kids are being taught that selfish, narcissistic, and sometimes abusive sex is the”hottest,” most amazing sex out there.
“
"Unfortunately, pornography has become the de facto sex education instrument for millions of youth today. Pornography’s messages of exploitation and aggression are priming the sexual templates and writing sexual scripts for these youth. Rather than developing their own sexual templates, boys learn to coerce and objectify females, and girls learn to play this role."
Donald L. Hilton Jr., MD,
Neurosurgeon, Prominent Activist in the Anti-Exploitation Movement
That’s why they need YOU to have these important conversations with them! Your children need to hear what sex, intimacy, and relationships are all about from a trusted, caring adult (YOU).
But, naturally, you may not feel ready.
That’s where I come in!
We’ve Made it Easy to Start One of the Most Important Conversations You’ll Ever Have with Your Kids
When I first started my company, Educate and Empower Kids, I talked with dozens and dozens of parents who all had the same thing in common when it came to educating their kids about healthy sexuality.
They were scared.
Scared of what porn was teaching their kids, but also scared to open their mouths and start talking.
They were scared to say the wrong thing or scared to say too much.
There were even those who were frightened they were going to “give their kids ideas” or steal their child’s innocence.
That’s when I realized how different I was.
I wasn’t scared.
I had researched and prepared and was ready and able to talk about pretty much anything when it came to sex or porn or predators, or LGBTQ topics, etc.
Right then, I knew I wanted to help as many parents as I could to have these vital conversations with their kids! I wanted them to have the confidence I had, and more importantly, I wanted them to have the close, deeply connected relationships that I had with my kids.
They were missing out on something AMAZING!! They didn’t realize that by avoiding these discussions, they were actually pushing their kids away.
Little by little, they were creating walls around uncomfortable topics.
They were, in effect, “telling” their kids, “We don’t talk about these things, and you can’t depend on me to deal with uncomfortable things with you.”
Ouch!
That is a harsh and damaging message to send your kids. But parents do it all the time!
It Doesn’t Have to Be Like This!
Whoever you are and whatever you have been through,
I’m here to help you!
“Dina and her 30 Days Series equips nervous and overwhelmed parents making these talks feel comfortable and fruitful. It’s never been more important to have regular discussions with your family about healthy intimacy and sexuality than in today’s hypersexualized and pornified world.”
Introducing
Sex Talks Made Easy
I’ll give you the tools to break down that wall of awkwardness.
This video course gives you the easy way to discuss sex with your kids.
With my video series, you get…
The know-how
The confidence
And even the right words to make these talks simple, positive, and purposeful.
You’ll be prepared with fresh perspectives, new approaches, and all the information you need to make these crucial conversations feel comfortable and connected.
No more anxiety about sex talks.
No more worrying about saying the wrong thing.
No more worrying about when to start.
Yes, the Sex Talks Really Can Be Painless AND Meaningful
“Talking about sex, body image, self-esteem, pornography, and other ‘difficult’ topics was never talked about in my home growing up. But I have always wanted to have more open conversations about these ‘difficult’ topics with my kids. I have 5 kids and it can be overwhelming when thinking about what to talk about and how to talk about it with each of them. Dina does an amazing job at helping make these conversations natural and easy for both my boys and girls! I’ve been able to have natural conversations, versus let’s sit down and have a talk. I highly recommend them!”
“These videos are AWESOME! I love how open and non-judgmental Dina is, making it incredibly easy for parents to get talking. She gives specific guidance, while also making it easy to align these conversations with my culture and ideas–and with my kids’ maturity level. She even offers examples and scenarios, with helpful strategies for healthy communication. Dina’s advice and focus on putting parents in charge of their kids’ sex education provides great balance and flexibility! This is a must-have for parents that I recommend to everyone!”
Here’s What You’re Going to
Discover in This Course:
Over 30 short, information-packed videos to choose from
A Digital Copy of our Amazon Best-selling book 30 Days of Sex Talks for parents of kids ages 8-11
With clickable links for more resources and a huge glossary to help you define terms.
Two Ebooks to help you understand and manage Your family’s media intake
•A Family’s Guide To Digital Media
AND
•Being Smart and Kind Online, A Family’s Guide to Internet Safety and Digital Citizenship
Bonus Videos
• Getting Comfortable with Being “Uncomfortable”
• Dealing with Our Own Baggage
• Building Trust with Your Children
Access to relevant family night lessons and diagrams to help you explain specific issues.
With your purchase you will get ½ off an individual coaching session with Dina
Usually priced at $70 per session, only $35 when you enroll!
Going at your own pace, you can start with the Introduction or begin with topic #10. It’s up to you!
Remember, you know and love your child better than anyone, and you’ll know where to begin.
I’ve done the hard work for you!
- Our bite-sized, 8-15 minute videos break down the essentials, helping you discuss the ins and outs confidently.
- I help you set the tone, emphasize the important points, and lay out the discussion questions to guide thoughtful, productive dialogue.
- Watch as few or as many of the short 30+ videos as you need. Even if you find a topic or discussion point that you disagree with, use it as a talking point to teach your kids from your experience and cultural background.
- I don’t just stop with these basics. My videos also have super helpful discussions about the often-forgotten subjects that are critical to attaining true healthy sexuality. Discussions include: shame and guilt, self-worth, curiosity, romantic love, and respect. We even get into the tougher issues like predators, what to do if something happens to you, masturbation, sexting, and pornography.
- I’ll give you the background info, the words, and discussion questions to have straightforward chats about everything from anatomy and puberty, to sexting and social media, and so much more.
We’ve got you covered so that these talks can be simple, straightforward, and meaningful.
Our Kids are Living in a Different World than You Grew Up in
They have questions! It’s Time to start answering–before they ask.
Please know, if you don’t teach your kids about sex, someone else will.
Now is the time, whether your kids are 5 or 15. Whether you think your kids are too young or that you waited too long to start. If you have a child living at home with you, it is the right time to start answering their questions and have open conversations about these important topics!
Remember, NO ONE loves or knows your kids as well as you do!
That’s why YOU are the right person to start and continue these conversations.
You know and love your kids more than anyone on the planet and THIS makes you the perfect person to start and continue these essential conversations.
Having a healthy understanding of sex, one’s own sexuality, intimacy, and relationships is crucial to their future happiness. With this understanding, your child will avoid much of the angst, self-consciousness, and confusion that so many kids are experiencing today.
As you become the first, best source of information for them about anatomy, puberty, the mechanics of sex, sexual identity, and more, your child will be empowered with practical knowledge and will be ready to move on to deeper topics.
What You’re Getting Inside My Digital Course
Over 35 Videos
Value $75
2 FREE Ebooks:
A Family’s Guide To Digital Media AND
Being Smart and Kind Online, A Family’s Guide to Internet Safety and Digital Citizenship
Value $15
Downloadable Family Night Lessons
Value $10
+++With your purchase you get ½ off an individual coaching session with Dina
$35/Session (Value $70/Session)
Total Value of $165 for just $65!
Click here to enroll for just a one-time payment of $65
“Dina’s video course is something every parent needs. It covers tough topics such as masturbation, sexual identity, and gender in an understandable, age-appropriate manner. The course helped me feel more comfortable and confident in having these discussions with my kids. My parents never taught me about sex and I was extremely nervous to teach my kids. Highly recommend purchasing if you’re ready to have wholesome, informative, and productive talks with your child!”
Educate and Empower Kids gives a long overdue boot to the “birds and the bees” mindset and arms parents with sound, easy-to-use lesson ideas for teaching healthy sexuality in the home. The 30 Days of Sex Talks is a trusted resource in my own home and one I highly recommend to clients. I especially like how the series fosters a layered approach to this vital topic.
I’m With You Every Step of the Way
Each short video contains foundational information:
- Crucial talking points for every parent
- Fascinating discussion questions for basic or in-depth chats
- Straightforward, practical advice on how to begin these conversations
- Extra parenting resources that you can click on to learn more
- And tons of definitions that help you explain important terms and slang to your child
The Basic Topics Every Child Should Know
- Puberty for Girls
- Puberty for Boys
- Anatomy
- Curiosity
Meaningful Topics that are Crucial to Our Kids' Futures
- Emotional Aspects of Sex
- Healthy Relationships
- Romantic Love
- Different Kinds of Families
Tough Topics that I’ve Simplified for You
- Physical Mechanics of Sex
- Sexting and Social Media
- Pornography
- Gender
- Sexual Identification
- Shame and Guilt
- Predators
- Masturbation
+ 14 More Topics to Choose From
Here’s My Promise To You!
You have everything you need right here.
Rest assured, you’ll discover that my video series and books are invaluable assets for you and your family. I guarantee they will add value to your discussions with your family.
But, if for some reason you’re not satisfied, just let me and my team know with a quick email to info@educateempowerkids.org within 30 days of purchase, and we’ll send you a full refund. No questions asked.
In other words, you have a 30-day safety net to make sure this works for you. Try my video series. You won’t regret it.
As you chat with your kids, you’ll discover something AMAZING!
Growing closer together. I’m serious.
The feedback we have repeatedly gotten over the years is that these talks actually strengthen family bonds as you show your children that you’re open, informed, and ready to discuss anything.
When you begin and continue impactful conversations like the mechanics of sex, building healthy relationships, unhealthy media messages about sex, pornography, predators, etc. you are taking down the walls that many families put around these subjects.
Instead of “telling” your kids that “we don’t talk about that” you are telling your kids “I am a thoughtful and safe person to talk to about tough topics or ANYTHING you may want to talk about.”
I am not exaggerating when I tell you that you will bring a whole new level to your relationship with your kids! A deeper level that brings trust and closeness. Your kids will learn that they can talk to you about their worries, their fears, their hopes, and their dreams.
And that is the best feeling in the whole world! Start these conversations today and build a solid foundation for closer relationships.
Warm Regards,
Dina Alexander, MS, MTRS, CTRS
