Parent Dictionary: Search Engine Terms

Parent Dictionary: Search Engine Terms

By Kyle Roberts, M.A.

This is the 3rd of four articles in our Parent Translation series. See part 1 for a list of the most common emojis used in sexting. See part 2 for a list with definitions of the most common slang words used in texting. And check back as we will be adding information on common text codes

**Trigger Warning**

The name of our organization says it all; we exist to Educate and Empower. We believe that through education and thoughtful communication, we can empower everyone with the tools necessary to successfully navigate today’s Internet culture–sometimes that education takes us into the darker realms of the Internet that most of us try to avoid. Avoiding these harsh realities won’t make them go away.

These terms in our Parent Translation series can be a little harder to take.

The words listed below with their definitions are focused specifically in the culture of pornography.

Often, pornographic videos or erotica use keywords to identify their content to appeal to specific users–some of those terms can be ambiguous or misleading. It might be necessary for you to use this guide as a reference to decode some of the terms you are finding in your computer’s search history or simply to increase your own understanding on the topic. Read on with caution; some of what you are about to read may be shocking.

Finding something like this on your child’s phone or in their online messages can be shocking. For more great tips on how to handle these or situations like these, look into more of our informative articles here. (https://educateempowerkids.org) We have also put together a book, 30 Days to a Stronger Child, that provides more information on this and other topics available here. Oh, and don’t forget to check out our resources page.

4k porn– Named for its 4,000-pixel horizontal resolution (four times the resolution of regular 1080-pixel HD), 4K is considered super high-def, detailed pornography.

ATM — Anus To Mouth penetration.

BDSM– sexual practices of bondage, discipline, submission and sadomasochism, and role playing

Beaver Shot– photo of a woman’s vagina

Bear--A term used by gay men to describe a husky, large man with a lot of body hair.

Furrie, furry–One who has the urge to have sex with someone who is dressed up as a furry animal.

Bukkake — Japanese term, which refers to several men masturbating and ejaculating on a single woman. The number of men can vary from a few to over a hundred, the object being to get as much ejaculate on the woman’s body as possible.

CFNM— clothed female, naked man

CP— child pornography

Cream Pie— pornography that shows ejaculation inside the man’s partner

Dirty— sexually adventurous

DP — Stands for Double Penetration, and it typically means having two different males’ parts inserted at the same time into a woman’s body.

Down-blouse— sexual imagery of looking down a girl’s shirt

Ebonypornographic films involving at least one person of african descent usually a white woman with one or more  black men.

Facial— a man ejaculating onto a woman’s face

Fluffer— a person the set of pornographic film, whose job is to make the actor erect when needed

Futanaria— pornography depicting hermaphroditism

Fisting — The act of putting a fist in a person’s vagina or anus using copious amounts of lubricant.

Group Sex — The act of sexual intercourse with multiple partners of varying genders at the same time. More than a threesome.

Gokkun– The act in a pornographic film where a woman drinks the semen (often of more than one man) from a glass or cup

Gonzo — A type of pornography in which the camera is acknowledged and often used by the actors to make the viewer feel like part of the scene. Gonzo porn took the storyline out of adult movies and headed straight for the sex. It is especially violent and degrading toward women involving choking, hitting, slapping, spitting, and vomitting.  

Gape— a genre of pornography with gaping orifices (noun)

      The practice of keeping an orifice open, such as the anus, often to then urinate in it

Girlie Mag— a pornographic magazine

Hentai — Very sexually explicit animation or comic, such as Japanese anime.

infoporn — Porn for information’s sake; watching porn for the educational aspect.

JOI– Acronym for jack off instruction or jack off instructor, porn videos made for the purpose of teaching how to masturbate

Kink — Unusual sexual tastes or preferences.

Lewd— A sexual photo or image

MILF– Acronym for  “mom I’d like to F#$@

Money shot— The climactic scene in a pornographic movie, and often includes ejaculation on a woman’s face

NSFW—  Acronym that means, images that would not be safe to view at work

p0rn/pron— Both short for pornography, often mispelled on purpose in texts.

rule 34 — A “rule” of the internet stating that for any conceivable thing or situation, pornography has been created that depicts it.

Solo— A porn video where a single actor or actress masturbates

Scat— Pornography that shows defecation or ‘fecal play”

Smut— a promiscuous female

Spank— Pornographic material

Twink–usually considered a homosexual male with attractive, boyish qualities, often 18-23 years old

Upskirt— A photo or image of a woman’s genitalia taken from underneath her skirt

Vanilla — Normal, unexciting, boring sex life.

Ready to talk to your kids about online safety and healthy sexuality? Check out our books, 30 Days of Sex Talks; How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography, which is also available in Spanish; and 30 Days to a Stronger Child.

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Kyle Roberts has over 10 years of experience working with non profit organizations. She received her masters degree in community counseling from the University of Texas At San Antonio with an emphasis in addiction recovery. When she isn’t wrestling with her little boy she can be found teaching developmental psychology at BYU-Idaho or working on some DIY projects.